Anytime a woman decides to speak up and share her truth at the expense of a man, she takes a risk. The risk is heightened when that man is Black, famous and beloved. And while there have been dozens of women who have spoken out against singer R. Kelly and his sexual perversion and physical abuse, for one reason or another, people are attacking Andrea Kelly, the singer’s ex-wife and mother of his three children.
Andrea discussed the backlash she’s received in the last few months since going public with her story on tonight’s episode of “Growing Up Hip Hop: Atlanta.”
Talking to Deb Antney, Andrea said that just when she thinks her life is regaining a level of normalcy, another headline surfaces and she often learns of her husband’s latest indiscretion with the rest of the world.
In her confessional interview, Kelly said, “These past few months have been a roller coaster of emotion. When I think about the ways that I have been abused by Robert, from being hogtied, having both of my shoulders dislocated, to being slapped, pushed, having things thrown at me, the sexual abuse, the mental abuse, words can’t even describe. There’s some things that I don’t even speak anymore. I feel like once you give it to God, you better leave it with God. Because if I don’t leave it with God, I’m definitely going to be somewhere with my hands on the glass, visiting my children.”
Later, talking to Deb she thanked her for the support she’s extended to her over the years.
“I wish more women had somebody like you. You really know the sh*t I have been through. And this sh*t I been going through lately with Robert all in the press…Man, if I didn’t have women like you, I think I would be done with females because they have attacked me in such a way. And here I am putting myself in a position because I want to help women and they want to attack me!”
You can watch the clip of Andrea speaking with Deb and detailing her abuse, here.
“Growing Up Hip Hop: Atlanta” airs Thursdays at 9 p.m. ET/PT on WE tv.